Monday, April 21, 2014

Fathwa, - The husband of your first wife's daughter is not a Mahram to your second wife

Question
Asalam alaikum My question is I have two wives and my daughter is
getting married soon insha'Allah so will my son in law be able to see
my second wife without hijab does she have to cover herself in front
of my son in law because my daughter is from my first wife my second
wife does not have any children with me so does my second wife have to
cover herself in front of my son inlaw hope you understand my question
shukran suleiman
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that
Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
The husband of your daughter is not a Mahram to your second wife, and
the latter is not permitted to expose her adornment in front of him,
and she is obliged to wear Hijaab in front of him. It is your first
wife who becomes non-marriageable for him as soon as the marriage
contract with her daughter is conducted as Allaah Says )what means(:
}...and your wives' mothers...{]Quran 4:23[
Allaah Knows best.-
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Fathwa, - A wife contacting her ex-husband to discuss thefuture of their child

Question
assalm alkm. im second wife to my husband ..i have one girl baby of my
x husband. i want to know whether i can contact x husband and speak
..i want to ask him the money for my baby`s education and future. can
i ask him. do islam allows to speak to x husband after kula or
thalaq.. can we meet him just to ask money for the baby`s
future....please tell me..because my hubby is not spending money on my
baby he denies ...just he gives only fees for the school. that is not
enough so can i ask x husband for money ....
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that
Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
Your ex-husband has become a non-Mahram to you, and it is not
permissible for a woman to speak with a non-Mahram man except for a
need and provided that the religious pre-conditions are met as we
clarified in Fatwa 85201.
So, if you need to speak with him, this is permissible but you should
not be in seclusion with him or in a place of suspicion or involved in
any other thing that contradicts the Sharee'ah or could be a reason
for temptation.
It should be mentioned that education fees is not included in the
obligatory spending )upon the husband for his wife( according to the
view of many scholarsalthough some of them are of the view that it is
included.
We also wish to mention that a husband is not obliged to spend on the
children of his wife from a previous marriage and we have already
clarified this.
Allaah Knows best.-
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Fathwa, - The presence of a housemaid is a problem for him

Question
AsalamoAlikum My mother has a young unmarried female worker who helps
her in the home on per month payment basis. She is Non Mahram to me
and given that my home is not that large it creates difficulty for me
to avoid her completely if i have to move out of my room. Is it
permissible for her to wash my clothes)especially those after wet
dream( given that she is in charge of washing clothes at our home? Is
it permissible for me to ask her to prepare for me any sort of meal
and ask for other things like clothes)e.g.where they are kept(? how
can i avoid haram? i have not kept her, my mother gets huge benifit
from her and things would become difficult for my mother without
her.The female worker does not do hijab at our home while working. I
am not inclined to Evil in this regard)Alhamdulilah(. I do not want to
say anything about her intentions)only Allah knows her intentions( but
alot of times it becomes easy for her to see me and I usually feel
uneasy. Jazak Allah
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
Employing housemaids involves many dangers, so it is not permissible
to hire a housemaid except in cases of dire need. The limits set by
sharee'ah must be observed when dealing with them. For further
information see Fatwa 92230.
If your mother really needs this maid, there is no harm in that and it
is permissible for the maid to wash your clothes, including those in
which you had wet dreams. However, you have to remove the traces of
semen yourself lest she sees them and gets sexually aroused.
Moreover, it is permissible for you to talk with her to the extent
needed and within the limits of politeness. You should lower your gaze
from her, and you are not allowed to be in seclusion with her or stand
with her in a manner that arouses suspicion.
Finally, we advise you to marry as soon as possible and try to live in
an independent house in order to avoid the means of temptation.
Allaah Knows best.-
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Qur'an Related, - The Qur'an's Literary Excellence

Allah proclaims: "We have made the Qur'an easy to remember" (Surat
al-Qamar: 22).
In spite of the fact that it has an easily understandable style, it
cannot be compared in any way with another book. This is one of
Allah's great miracles. Those who doubted, in spite of clear proofs,
slandered the Prophet (saas), and so Allah revealed:
Do they say: "He has invented it"? Say: "Then produce a surah like it
and call upon anyone you can, besides Allah, if you are telling the
truth." (Surah Yunus: 38)
Even though noone could ever achieve this, the unbelievers could
mistakenly consider it an easy matter. In Arabia, poetry and
literature were highly developed; there were poets and fluent and
eloquent individuals who used Arabic very well. As Bediuzzaman Said
Nursi said, a tribe's literary people were considered the people's
greatest heroes. Given the importance they placed on literature and
rhetoric, the Mu'allaqat (seven odes written by seven poets) were
suspended in gold letters on the walls of the Ka`bah. 8 Some of them
were recited to the people on great occasions, such as the trade fair
at Ukaz. Even the Bedouins could recite poetry that was just as good
as any composed by the urban poets. Whether their poems were metrical
or composed in a free style, the people were moved.9
So, at a time when eloquence and style were well developed, Allah
revealed the Qur'an to our Prophet (saas). It was not long before
these literary individuals, even though their inner arrogance and
conceit made them persist in their rebelliousness, noticed that the
Qur'an was, in literary terms, a miracle.
The Qur'an includes incidents that are means of guidance for people,
allows people to recognize their own lower selves, gives information
about the past and the future. Its richness is infinite and
incomparable. In fact, this miracle is so great that Allah told the
Prophet (saas) to proclaim to those who were too arrogant to listen to
it:
Say: "If both humanity and jinn banded together to produce the like of
this Qur'an, they could never produce anything like it, even if they
backed each other up." We have spread throughout this Qur'an all kinds
of examples for people, but most people spurn anything but unbelief.
(Surat al-Isra': 88-89)
Or do they say: "He has invented it"? Say: "Then produce ten invented
surahs like this and call upon anyone you can besides Allah, if you
are telling the truth." If they do not respond to you, then know that
it has been sent down with Allah's knowledge and that there is no
deity but Him. So will you not become believers? (Surah Hud: 13-14)
Do they say: "He has invented it"? Say: "Then produce a surah like it
and call on anyone you can besides Allah, if you are telling the
truth." No, the fact is that they have denied something that their
knowledge does not embrace and the meaning of which has not yet
reached them. In the same way, those before them also denied the
truth. See the final fate of those who do wrong! (Surah Yunus: 38-39)
Unbelievers remain weak and powerless in relation to the Qur'an's
excellence. No one has ever produced anything like it, and no one ever
will. All the unbelievers' traps and ruses designed to discredit the
Prophet (saas) and prevent him from delivering his message were, as a
blessing from Allah, rendered ineffective.
From the literary point of view, with the Qur'an, our Prophet (saas)
gave the wisest response to his people's powerful and elaborate
rhetoric, to their most famous poets and finest orators. Besides this,
he proved himself superior to all literary people. No doubt this was
one of the effects of the Qur'an's incomparable literary quality and
wisdom. In response to the verses that the Prophet (saas) recited, the
Meccan polytheists were amazed. But in spite of their own certainty
about them, some of them rebelled because of their pride:
If you have doubts about what We have sent down to Our servant,
produce another surah equal to it and call your witnesses, besides
Allah, if you are telling the truth. If you do not do that – and you
will not do it – then fear the Fire whose fuel is people and stones,
made ready for the unbelievers. (Surat al-Baqarah: 23-24)
The great scholar Bediuzzaman Said Nursi interprets these verses in this way:
When the Qur'an came, it challenged at the same time the experts in
these four fields. First, it made the people of eloquence bow down
before it. They all listened to it with amazement. Second, it stunned
the poets and orators so that they bit their fingers in astonishment.
Their most beautiful poems written in gold were given a blow, and the
famous Seven Poems that were placed on the walls of the Ka`bah as an
object of pride were brought down. Third, it also silenced the
soothsayers and magicians, made them forget about their discoveries of
hidden knowledge, resulted in the expulsion of the jinn from the
heavens, and brought the process of divination to a certain end.
Fourth, it rescued from myth and fabrications those who were cognisant
of the events of bygone times and the facts of cosmology, teaching
them the real story of past events and the illuminating knowledge of
the facts of creation. Thus did those four groups bow down before the
Qur'an in astonishment and respect and become its students. None of
them ever dared dispute with a single verse of it. 10
The revelation of an extraordinary book to the Prophet (saas), who had
lived among them all his life, amazed the arrogant people and led them
to hate him without cause. As a result, they did their best to harm
him in every possible way. Although they saw that he was good both in
his life and moral character, they conspired against him:
Those who slandered this good and blessed man were personal witnesses
to his moral superiority. With their own eyes they saw the Prophet
Muhammad's (saas) faithfulness to his promises, loyalty, justice,
honesty, truthfulness, kindness to orphans and those in need,
generosity, and interest in others. His excellent character and moral
qualities always caught everyone's attention, and he was everyone's
most trusted, beloved, and respected friend.
Our Prophet's (saas) moral character could not be denied or ignored.
His moral character, as described in the Qur'an, was pleasing to
Allah, Who made him an example and guide to all people. According to
Islamic sources, Nadr ibn al-Haris attempted to harm the Prophet
(saas) with his words; later on, he met with the idolaters' leaders
and told them:
O Qurayshis, I swear that today you have encountered something that
has never befallen you before. From early childhood, Muhammad was your
most beloved, the greatest speaker of truth, and the one who achieved
the greatest respect. When he was older and brought Allah's Book, you
said that he was a magician. I swear that he is not a magician. We
have seen many magicians and how they breathe on knots. You then
called him a seer. I swear that neither is he a seer. How many seers
have we seen and witnessed their speech? You called him a poet. I
swear that he is not a poet. How many poems have we learned and seen
their metre? You called him crazy. I swear that he is not crazy. Are
there any signs of fainting, nonsense, or fits in him? O Qurayshis
think well and decide… 11
Footnotes
7. Bediuzzaman Said Nursi, Risale-i Nur Collection, "The Letters: The
Twenty-sixth Letter, The First Topic," www.risale- inur.com.tr/rnk
/eng/words
/15th_word.htm.
8. "Mu'allaqat," www.britannica.com/eb /article-9054111.
9. Ahmet Cevdet Paşa, Muallim Mahir iz, Peygamber Efendimiz (sav) (Our
Prophet [saas]) (Hediye Kitaplar), 55-56.
10. Bediuzzaman Said Nursi, Risale-i Nur Collection, "The Letters: The
Nineteenth Letter, Eighteenth Sign, Second Remark," www.risale-
inur.com.tr/rnk /eng/letters /19letter.html
11. As-Suyuti, Tahdhib al-Khasa'is al-Nabawiyyah al-Kubra (The Awesome
Characteristics of the Prophet [saas] (Istanbul: Iz Publications,
2003), p.286.-
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Qur'an Related, - Everything Has Been Explained in the Qur'an

Allah explains clearly in the Qur'an what is right and wrong, allowed
and forbidden. Therefore, it is an easy matter for believers who
listen to the voice of their conscience and avoid the selfish
promoting of their lower selves to find the truth. The Qur'an contains
advice that is full of wisdom. Its wisdom and the goodness enjoined in
its verses are clear. Sincere believers whom Allah has put on the
right path can understand it without difficulty and implement its
truths in their attitudes and ideas, for the Qur'an is "guidance for
humanity, with clear signs containing guidance and discrimination"
(Surat al-Baqarah: 185).
However, only those who fear and respect Allah, abide by His decrees,
submit to Him in their heart, and choose the next world to this one
can consider its advice:
We did not send down the Qur'an to you to make you miserable, but only
as a reminder for those who have fear [and respect for Allah]. (Surah
Ta Ha: 2-3)
This is a major secret of the Qur'an. It does not take a high
intellect, a broad culture, or any special ability to understand the
Qur'an; it is only necessary to have sincerity. Allah reveals the
truth to His sincere servants and brings them to salvation. The Qur'an
has been sent to humanity, but is the way to the right path only for
those who fear and respect Him and believe in the Last Day:
Those are the signs of the Wise Book - guidance and mercy for those
who do good. (Surah Luqman: 2-3)
O humanity, admonition has come to you from your Lord, and also
healing for what is in the breasts and guidance and mercy for the
believers. (Surah Yunus: 57)
Given the above, we can see that the Qur'an contains advice for
everyone and guides the observant and generous Muslims to the right
path. As the great Islamic thinker Bediuzzaman Said Nursi said:"The
All-Wise Qur'an is the leader to the aware and the conscious, the
guide of jinn and men, the teacher of those attaining to perfection,
and instructor of those seeking reality."7 In order to bring humanity
out of its darkness and into the light, Allah revealed the answer to
every question to those who seek it in their conscience:
We have sent down the Book to you making all things clear and as
guidance and mercy and good news for the Muslims. (Surat an-Nahl: 89)
...We have not omitted anything from the Book - then they will be
gathered to their Lord. (Surat al-An'am: 38)
This is a manifestation of Allah's mercy toward His servants.
Moreover, Allah lets us know something about Him through the Qur'an.
For example, He reveals that He created the universe from nothing,
rich beyond need of any being, is beyond defect, knows everything, and
sees and hears every secret. Besides this, He revealed why and how
human beings were created; what kind of life will win His approval;
the existence of the Day of Judgment, Paradise, and Hell; taught human
beings how to pray and be good, how to be sound in body and spirit,
and what to do in times of difficulty and unexpected situations; and
described the various kinds of human character. But He has also
revealed far more than just these things, for some verses point to
scientific truths and knowledge as well as how to solve personal and
social problems. In other words, the Qur'an contains all of the basic
knowledge necessary for every moment of a person's life:
In this way We have sent it down as an Arabic Qur'an and have given
various warnings in it so that, hopefully, they will have fear of
Allah or that it will spur them to remembrance. (Surah Ta Ha: 113)
We have spread throughout this Qur'an all kinds of examples for
people, but most people spurn anything but unbelief. (Surat al-Isra':
89)
We have spread throughout this Qur'an all kinds of examples for
people, but, more than anything else, humanity is argumentative.
(Surat al-Kahf: 54)
Allah tells people to obey His decrees absolutely, to take Him as
their only friend and guardian, and that the only purpose of life is
to win His approval and mercy and thereby reach Paradise. The only
criterion for living is the Qur'an, and the only way to follow is the
way of Prophet Muhammad (saas).
Allah, Who was pleased to choose Islam as the religion for His
servants, revealed the Qur'an as a guide to which they could refer and
made the life of our Prophet (saas) an example for them. All other
paths are errant and false, based only on myths, heresy, and opinion.
Therefore, people can hope for a reward from Allah only if they take
the Qur'an and the Prophet's (saas) Sunnah as their measure of
judgment, obey Allah's commands fully by always doing good works to
win His approval, and take the Prophet's (saas) moral character as
their example.
As Allah revealed in the Qur'an, His words are "perfect" and people
can only reach the truth by following the Qur'an and the Prophet's
(saas) Sunnah, for:
"Am I to desire someone other than Allah as a judge when it is He Who
has sent down the Book to you clarifying everything?" Those to whom We
have given the Book know it has been sent down from your Lord with
truth, so on no account be among the doubters. The Words of your Lord
are perfect in truthfulness and justice. No one can change His Words.
He is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing. (Surat al-An'am: 114-115)-
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