Fathwa, - The presence of a housemaid is a problem for him

Question
AsalamoAlikum My mother has a young unmarried female worker who helps
her in the home on per month payment basis. She is Non Mahram to me
and given that my home is not that large it creates difficulty for me
to avoid her completely if i have to move out of my room. Is it
permissible for her to wash my clothes)especially those after wet
dream( given that she is in charge of washing clothes at our home? Is
it permissible for me to ask her to prepare for me any sort of meal
and ask for other things like clothes)e.g.where they are kept(? how
can i avoid haram? i have not kept her, my mother gets huge benifit
from her and things would become difficult for my mother without
her.The female worker does not do hijab at our home while working. I
am not inclined to Evil in this regard)Alhamdulilah(. I do not want to
say anything about her intentions)only Allah knows her intentions( but
alot of times it becomes easy for her to see me and I usually feel
uneasy. Jazak Allah
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad,
is His Slave and Messenger.
Employing housemaids involves many dangers, so it is not permissible
to hire a housemaid except in cases of dire need. The limits set by
sharee'ah must be observed when dealing with them. For further
information see Fatwa 92230.
If your mother really needs this maid, there is no harm in that and it
is permissible for the maid to wash your clothes, including those in
which you had wet dreams. However, you have to remove the traces of
semen yourself lest she sees them and gets sexually aroused.
Moreover, it is permissible for you to talk with her to the extent
needed and within the limits of politeness. You should lower your gaze
from her, and you are not allowed to be in seclusion with her or stand
with her in a manner that arouses suspicion.
Finally, we advise you to marry as soon as possible and try to live in
an independent house in order to avoid the means of temptation.
Allaah Knows best.-

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