Sunday, April 20, 2014

Health and Fitness, - Your Role in Treating Enuresis

Is it possible that I could have a role?
Yes, dear caregiver, you are the one who plays the greatest role in
treating your child's enuresis )bed-wetting(, particularly if it goes
back to psychological causes.
Below is an outline of your role as clarified by physicians:
- To habituate your child to depend on himself from an early age until
he gets accustomed to facing problems and tries to solve them under
the supervision of his parents. A child who is habituated to depending
on himself from a very early age rarely suffers from this problem.
- Habituate the child, from a very early age, to use the toilet
correctly. These days, thanks to easy-to-use diapers, mothers slacken
in training their children to use the toilet at an early age.
- Do not rebuke or beat your child as this may lead to negative
reactions on the child's side, or, perhaps, his insistence on wetting
his bed as an objection to the rebuke and hitting. So, it is important
to stop punishing the child and showing anger to him because of his
bed-wetting problem, since showing anger because of this leads to
tension and trouble, with which the enuresis continues.
- To accept this behavior as being natural and explaining it to the
child gives him a feeling of security. Parents should alleviate the
negative feelings about that condition and convince him that he is not
the only one and that many children do the same, and that soon he will
get over it.
- To provide the child with warm feelings, compassion and support. The
parents should tell the child that they love him and by no means
should they be angry with him.
- To encourage and even praise the child whenever he is able to
control his urination.
- To put a monthly table and mark with red stars the nights on which
he could control his urination. This way motivates him and helps him
evaluate the situation and endeavor to overcome the problem with
eagerness to receive the reward in the event of success.
- Serve dinner to the child at an early time and do not give him
drinks after six in the evening, i.e. 2 to 3 hours before he goes to
bed -- especially drinks that contain caffeine because it is a
diuretic; however, do not leave the child thirsty.
- Do not give him foods that contain large amounts of water; such as
watermelon, cucumber, and so on, before going to bed.
- Help the child have enough sleep during the night, and have an hour
of sleep during the day, as this will help overcome the problem of
deep sleep.
- It is necessary for the child's food to be healthy and free of
excessive spices, salts and sugars.
- Get the child to go to the toilet to urinate directly before sleep
and awaken him during the night to go to the toilet for the same
purpose.
- To observe the times at which the child urinates in bed and awaken
him from sleep some minutes before those times to urinate. In this
respect, the parents have to make it easy for the child to go to the
toilet to urinate by keeping the toilet light switched on and making
the child's room near to the toilet, if it is possible. At the same
time, this procedure should not be made a burden on the child. An
adult should accompany him to the toilet if he is afraid of going
alone at night.
- Switch on a faint light in the child's room to help him go to the
toilet or change his clothes at night.
- Do not talk about the child's problem with others in the child's
presence and do not make a comparison between him and his peers who do
not face the same problem.
- Do not attribute to the child characteristics which he does not like
and tackle the problem in secret.
- Be keen on the child's cleanliness and urge him to take a bath and
change his clothes.
- It is better if the child sleeps alone on a separate bed.
- It is better to put bedding to absorb liquids, so that the child
would be more comfortable.
- See a doctor to be sure whether this problem goes back to physical
causes, and abide by the guidelines of the physician with regard to
taking the medicine regularly at its due time.
- Train the urinary bladder to increase its capacity by getting the
child to drink great quantities of liquids during the day and asking
him to defer urination for some time, with increasing the time for
which he should hold urine throughout many weeks, during which he
would become able to control urination in a better way.
- If the child wakes up wet and weeping, the parent should change his
clothes quietly, calm him and embrace him and sit by his side until he
goes back to sleep.
- Provide a good family atmosphere for the children, and good
communication. Parents should not quarrel in their children's
presence, and the children should feel they live in a house full of
happiness and love.
- Boost the child's self-confidence by saying that the problem will
inevitably get better with time; and if we succeed in solving it, the
results would be better.
- Do not let the child listen to disturbing news particularly directly
before bedtime.
- Limit the time the child sits in front of the TV and choose the
programs he watches.
- Read relaxing stories to children before sleep to calm them.
- Alert his older siblings not to ridicule him because of this habit
since this harms him and complicates his situation.
- Give the child the freedom to discuss his status with his physician
if he is capable of doing so.
- Provide coverings and underclothes near the child, and encourage him
to change them by himself in case of involuntary urination so that he
feels responsible for this problem.
- Make the child change his bedsheet every time he fails to control urination.
- The family should ensure a quiet atmosphere in the house,
particularly before the child goes to bed.
If the involuntary urination is traced to a psychological cause, it
should be identified. We have mentioned that the child's enuresis is
an indicator of a problem from which he is suffering. So, it is of
great importance to know the specific nature of that problem. Knowing
the cause that lies beyond his feeling of annoyance, depression,
terror, and so on, helps us treat the causes of our children's
displeasure. In this way, we would obtain a radical solution for the
problem.
A lot of parents are mistaken when they think that the treatment of
the children's enuresis is only to habituate the child to control
urination. Whoever thinks, or does so, will not solve the root of the
problem. Bed-wetting, as we have previously clarified, indicates a
problem, and its disappearance does not mean that the problem itself
has disappeared; in so much as it means that only its outward symptoms
have disappeared. Some specialists say that it is true that the child
may stop bed-wetting, but unless the problem underlying his annoyance
is principally solved, he will express it through other abnormal
behaviors. In this way, he only replaces one means of expression with
another.
For example, he may become more introverted, more secluded, achieving
less at school, to the end of this chain of undesirable behavior.
Hence, the parents should look for the causes lying behind their
children's suffering and try to improve the psychological atmosphere
in which they live. It is of no use to order them to stop bed-wetting,
while the family quarrels or their persecution remain the same, given
that if these problems are solved, the bed-wetting would automatically
diminish and it will be easy for us to try to stop it completely.

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