Fathwa, - Her brother-in-law behaved to her in a suspicious manner

Question
salam aleikum sheikh. i have one big problem that i need your advice
with. in summer i was living for 3 weeks with my husbands family, mom
dad little sister and older brother..his older brotherlook very
practising.. he have barb and sunnah clothes but i have discover that
he is so far from islam. this man have make me in very bad situation
more than one time..for example he have take of his tshirt infront of
me 3 times and i have see all his aura but of course i have look away
and go to other room..he have say many to me strange things, like if
me and my husband, his brother divorce i am stil welcome to move with
him the mom and the sister and we all live together. i have say all
this to my husband. the big problem is that even he have take of his
tshirt in front of me 3 times and all my husbands family have see this
they have not only not say for him to not make this but they lie in my
face and say for my husband that it have never happen. i now feel very
stupid to have say this to my husband because he believe his family
and not me but i have not say this for to make problem but for to
explain that i have been many times in situations with his brother
where i have not feel secure and in the future i dont want to be
anywhere where my husband is not, like this nobody can deny what have
happen and make me like one lier. have i make wrong for to say all
this to my husband?? is it better not to say and maybe next time
something more bad happen??? jazaki allahu khairan..
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify
that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that
Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
If the situation is as you mentioned that your brother-in-law took off
his shirt in a way that his 'Awrah )parts of the body that must be
covered in Islam( was uncovered, then he is wrong. Indeed, you did
well by looking away and going away from him. We would like to mention
here that the 'Awrah of a man is from the navel to the knee as we
clarified in Fatwa 87818.
Moreover, if what you mentioned is true that he told you"if your
husband divorces you, you are welcome...etc.", then if he intended to
incite you to seek divorce, then he is trying to spoil the marital
relationship between you and your husband and this is forbidden as we
clarified in Fatwa 92056.
However, you should not have informed your husband of what his bother
said or did to you as the harm of informing him is greater than its
benefit.
It should be noted that the wife's brother-in-law is a non-Mahram to
her, so it is not permissible for her to mix with him in a forbidden
manner or allow him to be in seclusion with her or take her Hijjab off
in front of him.
Indeed, the Sharee'ah warned women against the male relatives of the
husband more than any other males.'Uqbah Ibn 'Aamernarrated that the
Prophetsaid:"Beware of entering upon women;" they said: 'O Messenger
of Allaah, what do you say about the male in-law )the woman's
husband's male relative like his brother, uncle, cousin, etc(?' He
replied: "He is death itself )i.e. his seclusion with her is as
serious and dangerous as death(."]Bukhaari and Muslim[
So, a husband should help his wife in being chaste and in avoiding
reasons of temptation.
Finally, it should be noted that a wife is not obliged to visit the
family of her husband )i.e. her in-laws(, especially if she fears they
may harm her.
Allaah Knows best.

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